Ok so I am thinking of sending this message to the dude I got freaky with:
I just want to make it all go away, let him know I’m not up for more anal adventures or anything, and also trying to keep his mouth shut so my ex or any of our friends don’t find out how low I have sunk (my ex may have a shitty character, but he’s pretty damn hot)
“hey, sorry for being a dick yesterday morning, I just really needed to sleep as much as possible before work.
By the way, I’m sure you weren’t going to but I just have to ask, please don’t tell anyone about what happened, I don’t want my ex to find out and we do know all the same people.
I’m still not sure exactly how we ended up there but I guess we did drink a hell of a lot. Man I really don’t want things to be weird or awkward now, I don’t exactly have a surplus of friends here to go around doing this kind of shit. Anyway hope it’s all cool…
More or less because I wrote it in Spanish.
Now as usual with anything I write, I have absolutely no idea if it is completely not right or if it’s good. I can’t tell if I’m giving the right message or somehow telling him I’m interested. I do think I need to smooth things over because if I never speak to him again he will have no reason not to tell everyone. I don’t want everyone to know. Like seriously he is so gross and slimey.
Anyway… I’m freaking out here.
Any advice or suggestions for corrections would be so much appreciated.